Do you know your love language? If you don’t, I highly recommend taking this quiz on The Love Language website!
Learning about your love languages can help you better understand yourself, your partner, and the relationship you two share.
I really enjoy learning more about love languages because I find it so interesting! I remember taking the love language quiz years ago to find out what my primary love languages are (quality time and acts of service!!) and it has helped me to understand what I want and need in my relationships. ❤️
While the love languages are great to know for your day to day life, there are so many great ways you can incorporate them into your wedding day as well!
✨Receiving Gifts: Carve out 10-15 minutes in your timeline to do a quick gift exchange with your person. It doesn’t have to be anything crazy and it can be tied in with your first look! Just a sweet letter or a personalized gift will be a wonderful way to express this.
✨Words of Affirmation: You can tap into this love language by writing your person a sweet note to read before the big moment, writing personal vows, or even just gushing about how beautiful/handsome your partner looks throughout your wedding day.
✨Physical Touch: If you’re not wanting to do a first look, do a first touch! Find a corner, hold hands and have that sweet moment together before it’s aisle time. (without peeking at one another!)
✨Acts of Service: A wedding day can be stressful. Grooms, if you know your brides stressor try to take that away from her! Get together last minute details for the big day or clean the house. Take something off the to-do list for her and vice versa!
✨Quality Time: Simply having a first look or a prayer together before family and friends arrive gives you both some quality time. When my clients choose to do a first look on their wedding days (which I 100% always recommend doing!!) I will coordinate the first look and then step away for a few minutes to give them time to be together and soak in all the feelings of the day. Another great way to have quality time on your wedding day is to structure a “break” between the ceremony and reception where you two can go somewhere private and spend some time alone.
I hope this post has encouraged you to incorporate some of these into your wedding day!
